April 28, 2006
Volume 34
Issue 17
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Sex Talk by Simon Shepard
Speaking of two tops
"Often as not," says one topman, "if I'm negotiating with a bottom I haven't played with yet, he'll ask if I know any other tops who'd want to join in."

Sure enough, many bottomboys fondly fantasize being fondled by two macho men at once. Sometimes it's a matter of being used at both ends, one shaft up the bottom's butt, the other down his throat. Other fantasies tend toward the gang-bang, featuring two tough tops taking turns with one hole or another. There are co-topped kink scenes involving handcuffs and floggers. But some desires can be pure vanilla; one manually oriented man says, "There's nothing that makes me happier than stroking off two guys at once, one in each hand."

What all these scenes - whether whipping or wanking - have in common is one busy homo servicing two horny guys. In kinky circumstances, practicality can play a part - an extra pair of hands can make elaborate rope bondage a cinch. But more than that, it's all about a bottom's generosity - or, if you look at it another way, greed. Continues our topman, "A bottomboy asking about a second top doesn't make me feel all that great. Even though I'm too secure to take it as a sign I might be inadequate, sharing a bottom means I would get half the attention, while he'd get twice as much."

Unsurprisingly, many bottoms would argue the point. Says one submissive slut-boy, "When I'm being used by two tops, I feel like I'm being overwhelmed, just a slave to my lust, and that sets me free to get really crazy and pleasure them twice as hard."

Whatever men's motivations, a two-top scene is similar to your basic, everyday three-way, but with preset power positions built in. If things go well, both tops can enjoy themselves as much (or more) than the piece of meat they share. As our topman says, "When I do co-top, I'm always choosy about who I do it with. The other top and I can build up quite a sense of camaraderie. It gets so hot sometimes that we end up playing with each other, more or less ignoring the bottom." He smiles. "Which can cheese the bottom guy off to no end."

That's not to say that everything will always go smoothly. A nasty top recalls, "I was at a sex party and another guy wanted to share my submissive with me. But it turned out that the jerk had no idea of what he was doing. Didn't know how to spank, didn't understand how to share power or how to set safe limits - nothing. Luckily, because it was at a play party, it was easy to just walk away from him."

If a guy's in the market to get double-done, he should keep in mind that he'll have twice as much to deal with, should things go awry. That's especially true for kinky scenes in which the bottom is more or less incapacitated - in such circumstances, setting things up safely is extra-vital. But even if nothing more than sucking is involved, it's important for a bottomboy to make his limits known. Once things get going, though, he'd better remember that the scene is at least as much about the men he's supposed to be servicing as it is about him - not the easiest thing for some pushy bottoms to keep in mind.

But after all, the two tops of a bottom's dreams could end up walking off into the switch-hitter sunset together, leaving him with a hard-on, and egg - instead of jizz - on his face. And how much fun would that be?

Simon Sheppard is the author of Sex Parties 101, Kinkorama, and In Deep: Erotic Stories, and can be reached at Visit Simon at

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